Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Group shots aren't always easy...





I've posted 3 pics here, but I know we took 5 times that many in an attempt to get a perfect group photo. Geez. Misfired timers, ill-positioned angles, eyes closed, dogs missing...My favorite - most likely to the end of time will be #2. Fuzzpa's HUGE smile is PRICELESS!!! Especially since "Fuzzpa doesn't smile."

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Lovely greetings

The scans below are just a few of the images included in my brother's family Christmas greeting card. I LOVE them - especially the one of Abby throwing the leaves. The card/photos were produced by Ashley Billings Photography in Winston-Salem. In my opinion this is beautiful work. I plan to request an extra card for scrapbooking!



Tuesday, December 21, 2010

In case of fire

There are signs similar to this one posted in my workplace. I find the message slightly insulting. I mean really? Without the elevator what other options does one have? A swan dive out of the 2nd story window?

Monday, December 20, 2010

Quote of the day

"We can do more than dream, we can imagine."

-Aristotle

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Buy coffee gifts

I love these gorgeous cards designed for Starbucks. If you have a coffee-loving friend, please consider purchasing a Starbucks gift card for them this Christmas. I know I'll be gifting them to a lucky few! :)

Time to fix your ride

As if it would've taken a lot for this eyesore to grab my attention, the car pictured was swerving all over highway 54 last night. Nice graffiti job - seriously?! I know you can't really see it in the pic, but this car was covered in haphazard zig-zags of spraypaint - in the brightest, most obnoxious colors.

Original paint job appeared to be in purple - barf - and the other paint designs were largely in pink, lavender and aqua. CLASSY!

Monday, December 13, 2010

Best doggie ever

I posted the same on my facebook page on Saturday. A great friend called me Saturday night and we talked about Bailey's passing - not that I need a reminder since I miss him horribly every single day. I love you Bailey! You are dearly missed. Could he be more handsome?

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Great old friends

A dear friend called me last night after receiving a Christmas card from me that confirmed Bailey's death. She didn't know about it before then because although I love her we don't get to talk to each other that often. Her call was sweet and wonderful. Blair you are such a great friend - Bailey, Zoe and I thank you for thinking of us! You are a cherished friend - always - someone I (and my canine friends) will love forever. xoxoxoxo

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

127 Hours

I remember hearing about Aron Ralston’s entrapment in Blue John Canyon after his appearance on the Today Show in 2003. I was immediately drawn to Aron’s ordeal, and also the circumstances that lead up to it. My thoughts went to Pete – the son of my parents’ dearest and oldest friends – an avid mountaineer who often climbed on his own.

Shortly after seeing Aron’s segment on the air I sent Pete a message, asking him to never climb alone again – or at least that he not climb alone without someone knowing his whereabouts. I know it had nothing to do with my request, but I’m happy to report that shortly afterwards Pete married a lovely woman – a non-climber – who has kept him safe and made him the father of three.

What happened to Aron could’ve happened to anybody. Yet to this day, even after seeing the story adapted to film, I wonder if I could’ve saved my own life in the same manner. Most of us have thought, “you never know what you’re capable of until the situation is upon you,” but if given that situation, I’m pretty sure I couldn't muster up the courage to cut off my own arm.

127 Hours was an excellent film, and beautifully shot – something not unexpected from one of my favorite directors. It was very Danny Boyle – very Trainspotting and 28 Days Later - multiple frames exposing intricate angles at once, and hand-held camera work that brings us all closer to the character at hand.

I was particularly “Trainspotted” during the opening scenes when Aron (James Franco) is driving through the typical American road trip scenery – sign upon sign, advertising fast food and cheap gas. It’s all a blur of a mostly ugly landscape – until you get to where Aron was headed – the great and open outdoors.

I’ve read ¾ of Ralston’s memoire, “Between a Rock and a Hard Place", and from what I’ve read the movie is very faithful to Ralston’s harrowing tale.

Aron hallucinated significantly during his entrapment and the film managed to portray this in a way that allows a bit of light humor, but having read most of the book I couldn’t really share in the laughter. I saw a young man breeching the edge of reality and struggling to hold it together in order to survive.

Knowing the end of a movie can really affect one’s reaction, and I was slightly surprised at mine. The end of the film is extremely intense, emotional and heightened by some very overpowering music that nearly brought me to tears – perhaps in a happy way.

I don’t think I’ve given anything away since it’s obvious that Aron is still among the living – a daddy in fact!

Go see 127 hours. It’s inspiring, raw and intensely visceral. I kept at least one eye opened for the entire film, but I won’t try to say that was easy. It is graphically realistic and hard to watch – but it is also, in turn, hard to look away from.

Monday, December 6, 2010

Quote of the day

"So many of our dreams seem impossible, then improbable, then inevitable."

-Christopher Reeve

Friday, December 3, 2010

Quote of the day

"Light tomorrow with today."

-Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Here's to Bailey!

That's what my friend wrote to me in the card pictured below. I must admit it sent me into a fit of sobbing - calling my mom, who joined me in sobbing - but I do really adore this card. So sweet!

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Quote of the day

"No bird soars too high if he soars with his own wings."

-William Blake

Zoe's new fashion

After many emails including pictures, measurements and guestimates, I purchased this super cute harness for Zoe from Doodlebug Duds on Etsy. I absolutely love it and it fits Zoe perfectly so I guess all those emails were worth it in the end.

My only minor gripe is that the d-rings at the end (the ones that come together and where the leash is attached) are really tiny. I'm hoping the fabric might relax a bit after use and make attaching Zoe's leash not so difficult (she is an extremely energetic wiggle worm!)

But I should also clarify that Zoe is a tiny girl, so this harness is an x-small, meaning that the rings on larger-sized harnesses would also be larger and less irritatingly tiny!

If you have a furry canine in your life I recommend swinging by Doodlebug Duds on Etsy. They make a ton of other stuff for four-legged friends of all sizes.


Monday, November 29, 2010

Quote of the day

"Each time you stand up for an ideal, you send forth a tiny ripple of hope."

-Robert Kennedy

Heels hold on to Victory Bell

Despite some terrible refereeing, the Heels came out on top Saturday night defeating Dook 24-19. The Heels haven't lost to Dook in Durham since 1988, and they've won 20 of the last 21 games against the dookies. GO HEELS!

Maria, Abby and I took some self-portraits to celebrate our lead in the second half.



We gave in to Abby's request for a "goofy shot."

Friday, November 26, 2010

Everybody's Fine

I watched this movie on Thanksgiving day. I was just looking for something to bide my time. I thought I'd heard a bit about it in passing but couldn't really remember for sure. I saw Robert De Niro, Sam Rockwell, Drew Barrymore and Kate Beckinsale on the first-billed list and thought, "how bad could it be?"

I'm so glad I spent the time to watch it. In a role far removed from most anything he's ever done, De Niro is wonderful as a widower (Frank Goode) reaching out to his children.

After his wife's death, he realizes that she was his only connection to the rest of his family and despite his ailing health he embarks on a cross-country trip to visit his kids.

None of his surprise visits turn out as planned. The viewer can figure out what's going on in the meantime given the behind-the-scenes phone conversations between three of Frank's children.

There's something amiss, as there has always been because Frank's children always told their mother everything, and their father nothing.

But by the end, Frank gets his happy ending, and so do we.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Quote of the day

My friend Kathy gave me an adorable mug in the shape of a dog with this quote on it. I see it every day on my desk, but one of my friends had a particularly bad day yesterday (which didn't start out that way) so I thought I'd post it.

"Some days you're the dog. Some days you're the hydrant."

-unknown

Monday, November 22, 2010

Frigid Terrier

I am beyond cheap when it comes to heating my home, but I've recently noticed my tiny terrier shivering regularly. Therefore I dug out Zoe's many sweaters. Some of them I knitted myself, some of them I purchased. This pink one was purchased at PetSmart. Zoe doesn't love wearing "clothes," but when she is wearing a sweater there is a noticeable lack of a doggie "chill".

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Last home game of 2010

I can't believe how fast this football season went by. Yesterday's game was not a good ending, but I did have a lot of fun tailgating with Todd, Maria and Abby for every home occasion. We'll be going to the drab Duke stadium next weekend to support the Heels at a semi-away game. Looking forward to 2011 football. Go HEELS!

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Following the Walking Dead

One of my very favorite movies is 28 Days Later, and The Walking Dead pilot episode was practically a replica of the first 45 or so minutes of 28 Days. I admit there was a bit of what I felt to be unnecessary backstory at the beginning of the pilot, but I never lost interest.

The coma patient who wakes up in the deserted hospital - stumbles through the city looking for signs of life - shortly finds a couple of people who have managed to avoid becoming zombies. All gore and violence in between. I was immediately hooked.

I missed the pilot that aired on AMC on Halloween, but caught it on a free on demand channel. I was completely expecting Sarah Polley and Mekhi Phifer, but was pleasantly surprised by a bit of talent from some mostly unknown actors. Don't get me wrong - I love Sarah Polley - especially in Go - but Dawn of the Dead was a great big DUD.

It's true that zombies have been done, time and time again, but The Walking Dead offers a bit of novelty to the tired tale. It's well-done television - the effects are pretty good and it appears to be invested in a plot rather than just a gore fest.

Based on recent plot developments, The Walking Dead is shaping up to be more of a sick pairing of Lord of the Flies and Night of the Living Dead. Disturbing.

After watching episode 3, Tell it to the Frogs, I heard the message that there are only 3 new episodes left. Who ever heard of a six episode television series?! I'm hoping for some clarification. God forbid they plan to cancel it - I will be so upset!

Monday, November 15, 2010

A child's memory of Bailey & Zoe



Abby brought me this drawing on Saturday. It means a lot to me that she still thinks of Bailey so much. He is missed more than anything in my world.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Quote of the day

I've recently been exposed to tragedies - at work, in the books I've read, in lingering memories, etc. It's been slightly depressing so I wanted to share a quote that encourages us to LIVE!

"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth -- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up -- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had."

-Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

Friday, November 5, 2010

Dog Town preview

A preview of the episode of Dog Town I mentioned in my post about "The Lost Dogs."

John Garcia, co-manager of Dogtown at Best Friends in Utah is amazing. His love and compassion for those broken and abused dogs is inspiring.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Quote of the day

"The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated."

-Mahatma Ghandi

The Lost Dogs

I began crying on page 2; but by page 20 I was weeping so hard that I couldn't see through my tears and page 20 did not hold the most brutal details.

I'm not sorry I'm reading this book, but I know that some of my fellow dog-loving friends will not be able to stomach it. The only way I can really express my overwhelming anger and despair is to say that while I realize my soul will suffer, I wish I could throw Michael Vick and his accomplices into a pit of blood-lusting dogs who would rip them to shreds. Beat them to death. Strangle the life from them in the same way they felt it was okay to shove their "underperforming" dogs into a bucket of water until they suffocated or were nailed to a tree to hang. Or for that one little red dog, to be repeatedly pounded into the ground until she died.

What's more disturbing is what Gorant reveals in his introduction - that many complaints sent to Sports Illustrated after the 12/29/08 issue featuring a sweet-faced pit bull with the title, "The Good News out of the Bad Newz Kennels," revolved around the following sentiment, "Why does it matter, they're just dogs?" For that thought to pass among intelligent human beings makes me sick to my stomach. I am beyond disgusted.

I could go into a crazed diatribe about how wrong that statement is - for so many reasons - but that shouldn't be necessary. Anyone who has ever owned and loved a pet knows that the aforementioned sentiment is absolutely ridiculous and could only be uttered by a heartless person.

I recently lost a beloved pet, a Norwegian Elkound named Bailey, and I miss him more than anything I've ever lost in my life. I was shocked to learn that the Norwegian Elkhound garners the #21 spot in the list of most dangerous canines. Anyone who knew Bailey knows that is beyond ridiculous, which just goes to show that a dog, just like a human, should be innocent until proven guilty.

Losing Bailey was a huge blow, and my family has been amazing, but I am still reeling and no one can really help me with that. Reading about these dogs who were forced to suffer so much brings it all to the forefront. Not because Bailey suffered, because I really don't think he did, but because I mourn for the happiness those puppies could've had - the happiness I know my Bailey enjoyed.

National Geographic's Dog Town admirably covered the extensive efforts to rehabilitate the most aggressive of the "Vick dogs" and truly provided an outsider with a tender look into those poor dogs who were trained to fight - something most dog lovers/advocates know is AGAINST their nature. I recommend viewing it - available on iTunes.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Envious

Check out these lashes. I bet even Latisse couldn't produce these beauties. No mascara, nothing fake - just gorgeous lush youthful lashes! My niece's lashes. Definitely envy-worthy!

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Green and Blue

Abby and I had fun trying to capture our eyes (one each) in a photograph. Hers are so exquisitely beautiful - blue with that touch of yellow around the pupil. Abby has eyes like her mom.

Knowing that green is the rarest eye color gives me just a tiny confidence boost. I like my green eyes.

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Lobby-bound

Here were are, Jen and I, waiting out a heavy storm in Jamaica. We were supposed to be embarking on a snorkeling cruise, but Mother Nature nixed that. Not to worry, we hitched on to another cruise the following morning.

The photo was taken (by me) in the lobby, which was an open-air lobby, meaning the rain could easily blow inside and soak us. We got a kick out of watching the hotel staff pull down the plastic flaps with their extra-long hooks in order to keep us dry.

Most of the hotel restaurants, bars and seating areas were open-air. In fact, I think the only enclosed spaces were the guest rooms. I found it quite refreshing, except on that last morning when all I could concentrate on was not throwing up. I would've given up a kidney for some air conditioning then.

Friday, October 29, 2010

OUCH!

Our Mystery Trip* to Montego Bay was excellent, but after viewing my photos (many which were not taken by me), I fear I will have little to offer visually. I have a few I like, but they are people shots. However, I will likely upload some pics from our snorkeling cruise. They're not spectacular, but as I was there I can attest to the perfection of the voyage!

Below is the bruise I gained after taking far too much advantage of the "all-inclusive" benefits of the RIU resort. Thank goodness Jeni was there or I might've been even more black and blue.

That's my right hip photographed Thursday night. They always say it looks worse before it gets better. I can't imagine this bruise getting any more purple - or tender.

I also managed to scrape just over a 1/16" of skin off of my right ankle. Oh the dangers of island life!

The bruises and scrapes and hangovers were VERY worth it. Thanks again Jen and Jeni for calling me a dozen times or more to get me to the airport!!!



*I am employed by an advertising agency that plans an employee trip every year to an undisclosed location. We don't find out where we're going until we get to the airport on the day of departure. My favorite destination thus far: Reykjavik, Iceland (2004).

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Mophead

I was out of the country on our company's annual Mystery Trip from the 22nd through the 25th, and upon my return came down with a nasty flu-like sickness. The trip was to Montego Bay, Jamaica, and I will post the minimal photos I managed to take as soon as I can. The trip was amazing - perhaps even too much fun given my current health.

In the meantime, Zoe says hi. She's sporting her mophead look here and holding on tight to one of her rawhide bones.

She was ridiculously excited to see me when I picked her up from Caroline's on Tuesday. Thanks to the Masons for taking such good care of her!

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Bailey Flashback

I finished my Bailey photobook, and I hope to receive it next week! Below you'll find one of the puppy pics I acquired via my new spiffy scanner that allows me to scan slides. He's about 8 weeks here. I miss that face!

Monday, October 18, 2010

Tiny dog defender

The scenario that Zoe and I encountered moments ago was not a first time occurrence, but I remain impressed with her ability to deter others from doing harm.

I'm a night owl, so my late night dog walks are my own fault, but I don't see that as an open invitation for outsiders to violate me or my home. Neither does Zoe.

As we walked just outside the perimeter of our neighborhood, we were approached by two men who refused to heed my warnings that Zoe would strike to bite if they didn't move to the side. They bated her and she lunged (frighteningly with bared teeth, despite her disadvantage regarding teeth), but I was able to restrain her. Thankfully they were scared or put off enough to move on without incident.

Had she bitten one of them I would've fought to the death to prove she was trying to protect me. There's nothing I wouldn't do to prove she was right.

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Quote of the day

I'm currently working on a Snapfish photo book in memory of Bailey, thanks to the suggestion from my brother who recently did the same for Casey. I've got dog books and calendars coming out of my ears, so I've been rummaging through them and found this quote last night that I liked.

"...Beauty without Vanity. Strength without Insolence. Courage without Ferocity."

-Lord Byron, on dogs

Thursday, October 14, 2010

On the tube

Synopsis: I'm way behind on The Event. Watched the pilot and couldn't get passed Laura Innes' creepy yet unintriguing acting. I guess I still see her as a stuffy ER director.

Running Wilde is one of the dumbest shows I've ever watched in my life. I adore Keri Russell, but this show is begging to be cancelled.

I'm not embarrassed to say that I LOVE Hawaii Five-0. Alex O'Laughlin is hot eye candy, and though I've never cared for Scott Caan, he is really funny. Of course I love Daniel Dae Kim - he was one of my favorite characters on Lost.

While coming off as a poor man's Alias, Nikita is relatively holding my attention for now.

Supernatural started out REALLY bad, but last week's episode made up for it, if only for my new put-down thanks to Dean (Jensen Ackles), "Suck it ass clown."

No doubt Dexter is living up to expectations. Yes I'm having issues with certain characters, but the show remains stellar. As Dexter, Michael C. Hall is absolutely brilliant - truly acting at its best.

I've been occasionally catching reruns of Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Nip/Tuck (early seasons) on LOGO. I miss those shows!

If I'm missing something unmissable, please advise. :)

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Doggie update

Here's a new, better quality photo of my brother's new pooch. Love those ears!

Todd sent me several text updates on Sunday - the first announcing that Lance plopped down in the main room of the house and didn't move for quite a while. At about 8:15 pm I got the following, "Heard the first bark, in response to the sprinkler. He's got the 'Timmy fell down the well' bark. Thinking he's more Collie than Sheltie."

I think he looks a lot more like Casey in this photo than the others I've shared.

Monday, October 11, 2010

Tar Heel toes

I loved Abby's Tar Heel pedicure, courtesy of Simply Sassy Kids Spa. I think she showed it to me last week, but I didn't think to take a photo. Of course the pedi is now a little worse for wear, but what do you expect from a nine-year-old?!

She's a true blue Tar Heel from head to toe.

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Meet Lance

My brother and his family adopted this rescue Shetland Sheepdog this morning. His name is Lance, he's about 1.5 years old and he's described as quite shy. I'm sure he'll warm up to Todd, Maria and Abby in no time! They're not sure whether or not they'll be keeping his name - Maria mentioned changing it to Charlie. We'll see.

Hope you're enjoying your new forever home sweet dog!





Saturday, October 9, 2010

Zoe clips

Zoe's new haircut, a la mom.





Tongue photo - always a necessity.

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Quote of the day

"We all live in suspense, from day to day, from hour to hour; in other words, we are the hero of our own story."

-Mary McCarthy

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

All guarded on the Western front

Shortly after Bailey passed, Zoe dutifully took over guard duty at the back of the house. She spends hours under that curtain keeping watch on the sidewalk close by. I try not to scold her too much when she scares the crap out of me with a barking fit since I know I'm better off with a little doggie alarm.



It's very hard to catch Zoe under the curtain because she has bat ears - another great trait in truth. Here she is having caught me trying to catch her on guard duty.



This is what I usually see - just her hiney and fluffy tail. She's a superb watch dog!

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Heels over Pirates

It was a great victory for the Heels yesterday - a perfect end to a perfect tailgating day.

We wound up being parked right next to one of Maria's friends, and her son and Abby entertained each other all afternoon. Lucas was quite the cornhole fan. He was actually really good at it, and VERY enthusiastic when he did well. High fives were in abundance.




Abby took this picture of her parents all by herself.




Abby hogged the binoculars for most of the game, except for when she shared with the five-year-old boy next to me (Theo). It took a while, but Theo eventually warmed up to us and kept me in stitches. Wish I had a pic because he was adorable!

Thursday, September 30, 2010

Quote of the day

"Trust that still, small voice that says, 'This might work and I'll try it.'"

-Diane Mariechild

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Happy Birthday Abby!



Dear Abby,

Happy 9th birthday my love! Since the day I met you you've been an incredible light in my life and I know I'm lucky to be a part of yours.

I watched you grow up alongside my precious Bailey, who you treated like a real brother. I know you loved him as he loved you.

I've also discovered, by watching you and hearing about you from your parents and grandparents, that you are a phenomenal little girl. Your heart is so big and your selfless nature sets you apart from most children your age and beyond.

I am so proud of you and proud to be your Auntie. We have so many more memories and birthdays to share!

I will always love you!! xo

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Full Moon Friday

It was a typical Friday night - me and a couple of dogs - two of us away from home. Zoe and I spend a lot of nights at our home away from home (Kerry's) with Emma.

Maybe it's the lycans on the brain due to the Vampire Diaries' most recent expansion into werewolf lore, but I was drawn to last night's full moon. My camera isn't the most sophisticated, but I thought a couple of these shots were kinda cool.

The first two have a bit of an ivy halo, while the third has some freaky phantom moon going on above. I have no idea what that spot really is.





I really liked this last one. Looks almost like a contained explosion.