Monday, June 29, 2009

Holiday Weekend

I spent Friday night with my dog pals Emma, Bailey and Zoe and then drove home to Winston-Salem for a birthday-Mother's Day-Father's Day weekend.

The Glazener's have been quite busy lately so all of the aforementioned holidays/occasions were foregone, but we managed to meet up this past weekend to cram everything in together.

The first photo is not a Glazener photo, but a Burleigh one: Sydney (lovely god daughter) and Felton (adorable brother). Kerry came by my office on Friday to pick something up so of course I took advantage of the photo op. Who couldn't when given the chance to capture such beautiful babies?!


The birthday, which was Thursday, was sister-in-law Maria's. I won't divulge her age, although I bet no one could guess anyway because she is in fabulous shape.

I feel bad now for having not mentioned it earlier, so HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARIA! I LOVE YOU!

As of late, a weekend with all of us together is pretty rare, so we lumped Mother's Day and Father's Day in with Maria's birthday. I think everyone made out well.

Abby and Todd:



Maria and Mom (Grammy), who we've all missed dearly:



Then of course I always owe Maria for being primed and ready to capture the cutest photos. I'm luckiest when she uses my camera to snap them! First we have Abby and Casey with Bailey hanging out to the left:



Then Abby with Bailey ("Baywee" or "Bail"):



I told Maria and Abby a gazillion times over the weekend, but I just love Abby's cute new do. It is so super-cute in person. It made me sad when Abby told me that her best friend told her she didn't like it, but I'm pretty sure she's the only one who doesn't love it!

Too bad you can't see it in these photos, but anyone who knows Shelly (Mehlen) Anderson - that's Abby's cut. I LOVE IT!

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Quote of the day

"Ode to an apple", by Emile Hirsch (scene from Into the Wild)

You're really good.
I mean, you're like 100,000 times better than like any apple I've ever had.
I'm not superman, I'm supertramp.
You're super apple.
You're so tasty!
You're so...ORGANIC!
You're so natural.
You're the apple of my eye!

I REALLY wish I could've found a photo of Emile's face when he says the last line, but alas no luck. (He leans in quite close to the camera with a mouthful of apple and a huge grin on his face). The best I could do was a photo taken of him dressed for that same scene.

Super-adorable! This one's for you, Jen - xo

Friday, June 26, 2009

Farewell to the Thriller

I was shocked to learn last night that Michael Jackson passed away yesterday from what is believed to be cardiac arrest. At the risk of giving away my age, I must say that Michael was the biggest thing going when I was growing up. I still remember watching him collect eight awards at the 1984 Grammys. I didn't necessarily have a crush on him, (at least not compared to the celebrity crush I once had on Joe Smith or the one I continue to have on Kip Pardue) but I certainly remember thinking he was pretty bad ass.

The music video for Thriller was a huge deal when it came out in 1983. Seriously, I think it was the coolest thing ever (at the time).

From wikipedia: "Michael Jackson's Thriller is a 13-minute music video for the song of the same name released on December 2, 1983 and directed by John Landis who also co-wrote the screenplay with Jackson. The mini-film music video was broadcast on MTV three weeks before Christmas 1983. It was the most expensive video of its time, costing US$500,000, and Guinness World Records listed it in 2006 as the 'most successful music video', selling over 9 million units."

It's crazy when one considers how paltry a $500,000 budget would be today.

The Thriller video remains an historical icon that endures despite the fact that its now somewhat cheesy special effects have been trumped many times over. In fact, the purchase of said video was one of my first from iTunes after receiving my ipod for Christmas in 2006.

I can't say I followed Jackson's life much over the last 10 years or so. He'd gotten way too weird by then and in no way resembled the man I admired when I was a child. Therefore, I have no comment on his recent past, but I wanted to list my top 10 favorite Michael Jackson songs in his honor. The following are not necessarily in order of preference:

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• Thriller

• Smooth Criminal

• Billie Jean

• Man in the Mirror

• The Way You Make Me Feel

• P.Y.T.

• Wanna Be Startin' Somethin'

• Human Nature

• Don't Stop 'Til You Get Enough

• I Want You Back (Jackson 5)
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R.I.P. Mr. Jackson. You certainly made history!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Sean McNamara & Christian Troy are retiring

I’ve been a huge fan of Nip/Tuck since its premiere in 2003. While I must admit the show’s wow factor has significantly declined for me over the last two seasons, I am still not ready to see it put to rest. Too bad for me I guess, as it looks like the 6th will be the lovely doctors’ last season.

Season 1 was exceptional; Season 2 blew me away and Season 3 was pretty darn good; but the last two seasons were so-so. Actually, to be honest, the 4th season was pretty wretched. But I still hoped the momentum would pick back up as opposed to the show's cancellation.

Apparently the final episode, the 100th of the series, is scheduled to premiere in 2011. I have no idea what the delay is, as I would’ve assumed the new season would follow previous schedules: premiering October 2009 and ending December 2009. Perhaps Nip/Tuck is taking a year off and the new season won’t premiere until 2010?

In honor of the show, I’ve included a few highlighted points below:

• The schizophrenic who “wants smaller boobies!”

• The tattooed 80s freak who demands a facial reconstruction – only to be morphed into FBIs most wanted.

• The psycho who wants a tummy tuck so she can work at the likes of Hot Topic.

• THE CARVER!

• Matt’s older woman who was gorgeous, but not quite so feminine.

• The advent of Bobotox.

• Misha Collins as the man who can blow himself.

• Kimber Henry (the stunning Kelly Carlson) and all her insanity - especially her desire to inject her infant's "thin villainous lips" with restylane.

I will miss Sean and Christian when they're gone! I hope both actors have other projects in the works so that Jen and I can continue to admire their handsome mugs in the future.

Monday, June 22, 2009

Into the Wild

I watched Into the Wild on the Dish Network last weekend. I’d seen it before on DVD and thoroughly enjoyed it, so when I found it on the cable schedule I was ecstatic, especially since I had access to a huge television on which to watch it (dogsitting at Kerry’s).

I first learned that Jon Krakauer’s book was coming to the big screen when I came across an article in Outside magazine’s September 2007 issue. I remembered that when I first heard of Chris McCandless’ demise I was a freshman in college. At that time, I couldn’t understand how such a bright young man could’ve done something so seemingly foolish and what I’ve often considered to be selfish.

For those of you who don't know the story of Christopher McCandless, the following is a very brief synopsis: After graduating from Emory University in May of 1990, Chris donated the remainder of his college savings ($24,000) to Oxfam; destroyed all identification he owned (including bank cards and his social security card); burned the money in his pockets; abandoned his car and set out for Alaska, where he intended to live in a period of solitude. He was found dead on September 6, 1992, in an abandoned bus near Denali National Park in Alaska. It is believed that he died from starvation, but there is speculation regarding the cause of his death (whether it was brought on by poisonous seeds he may have ingested, etc.) When found (believed to be two weeks after his death) his body weighed an estimated 67 pounds.

Sean Penn’s adaptation of Into the Wild brought Christopher McCandless (played by Emile Hirsch) to life and showed me more about who he was and why he set out on his “great Alaskan adventure.”

In the film, we learn a great deal about Chris’ nature via the relationships he forms with the people he encounters on his way to Alaska. In that respect, the movie reminded me a bit of one of my favorite books, “The Memory of Running” by Ron McLarty.

These relationships are key to understanding McCandless and his motivations. For example, McCandless’ childhood was reportedly quite volatile, and Chris eventually uncovered a series of lies regarding his parent’s history that literally turned his understanding of his existence upside-down.



So (in the film) when he met Jan (pictured above with her lover, Rainy), who later shared with him that she hadn’t heard from her own child, a boy about his age, for more than two years – his response to her saying, “you look like a loved kid” was, “rather than love, than money, than faith, than fame, than forgiveness – give me truth.”

This is twisted a bit on its head later in the film when, in a tender conversation with Jan (played by Catherine Keener), she asks him, “do your folks know where you are?” and it is easy to see that Chris is deeply affected by the question. In fact, after being called to dinner, he gets up but then returns to Jan to tell her, "You wanna come and eat or we'll sit here, because I will sit here with you all night." (I must admit, that draws the need for kleenex).

That scene is probably the most crucial for me in my argument that I do not believe Christopher McCandless wanted to die, like many people seem to think. I think he honestly thought he would see his parents again some day, somewhere way down the road of his life. If not his parents, then most certainly his sister, Carine, as they were obviously quite close. A closeness I long for with my own brother that will sadly never be realized.


Chris' relationship with Tracy Tatro (played by Kristen Stewart, pictured above) is quite touching. Their scenes together – although very few – give Chris a bit more depth than what some critics attribute to his character. He doesn’t come off as the snotty, arrogant, crazy over-zealous dreamer that some might call him. With Tracy, he is (although it might sound boring) responsible, sweet and refreshingly empathetic.

I entirely believed Tracy’s (Kristen’s) heartbreak on-screen when Chris (Emile) left. I think I might’ve shed tears.



Hal Holbrook's portrayal of Ron Franz was fantastic. I know I cried several times during his scenes. He was the last real relationship Chris formed along his way. Franz drove McCandless from the desert to where he could hitchhike to Alaska. He asked McCandless if he could adopt him, since his family line was about to end and Chris responded, "Can we talk about this when I get back from Alaska?" Ahh. It is truly too bad that he never made it out of there, especially when one considers that had he had a proper map he would've known that there was a tram to cross the river less than 1/2 mile away from where he left his hat as a marker and that there was also a ranger station within 2 miles of the bus where he'd been living. Seriously for shame.

One of his final photos (of the real Chris McCandless below) reminds me a great deal of my old friend Pete - the son of my parent's best friends. He's a hardcore outdoorsman himself, and ever since reading about Aron Ralston's near-death accident in Blue John Canyon, Utah, I worry about Pete all the time.



I picked up a pre-viewed copy of Into the Wild at Blockbuster last night for $5. I highly recommend this movie. Were it not a true story, I think it would still be just as moving.

Every character - no matter how small the role - touches my heart. I love the old guy in the desert talking about how he wouldn't move away for $10,000,000. Those little hints at others' happiness outside of Chris' ideals are what make it so much harder to watch him decline into a desperation from which he cannot recover.

On an ending note, it would be unconscionable for me to not mention the amazing soundtrack by Eddie Vedder. I will soon be acquiring my own copy of the Into the Wild soundtrack for sure. Vedder dedicated himself to the movie and came out with a beautiful album. My personal favorites are "Rise," "No More," and "Tuolumne."

Friday, June 19, 2009

Mullet nightmares

All of my friends and co-workers heard about my last trip to the Aveda Institute in Chapel Hill (March 2009) that led to a very teary ride home. I had been given what I can only describe as a “modern mullet.” I was mortified and resorted to wearing my hair in tiny claw clips for the following three to four weeks.

The silver lining that resulted from that student’s butchery was my subsequent relatively rapid hair-growth. You see, she’d given me my first “bang” since high school, but it only took about a month for me to be able to tuck it behind my ear and out of my way. I do not like hair in my face - more specifically - I don't like it ON my face.

I must admit that while the hair grew out, to this day I remain bitter. I should’ve known something was suspect when she kept my back to the mirror the whole time. Beware if you find yourself undergoing a "blind" cut.

Since I’d been to the Institute on two previous occasions and had been pleased with the results, I decided to go back. After all, it’d be almost impossible to see the same student on consecutive visits unless you return to the salon in less than a month. Oh, and a shampoo, mini-facial, cut and dry for $15 with no tips allowed is worth the risk to me! (Note: I think the regular price is between $19-$22, but that’s still cheap. The $15 price was a special).

So, I returned to Chapel Hill yesterday to brave another cut at the hands of an Aveda student. I think I made the girl quite nervous because after the previous disaster experience, I felt it necessary to share my disappointment and to be very specific about what I wanted her to do. I felt guilty, but I’m glad I spoke my mind because she took it all in and was very careful about getting feedback from me before snipping. And she was sure to keep me facing the mirror!

My hair is shorter than it’s been in a long time, but I’m happy with it. Since I blow out my super naturally curly hair every time I wash it, shorter is better anyway – so long as it’s not TOO short. NC summers make it tough to keep short hair straight when it’s in it’s nature to crimp up into the kinkiest of curls. (Hence the hatred of bangs!)

I will definitely return to the Aveda Institute in Chapel Hill for a regular hair cut. If I want to make a drastic change? No. Not unless I am able to request a very experienced student. But my hair isn’t all that tricky – there’s really no style to it at all – I just think I drew the short straw back in March.

So as not to frighten anyone away, the students really are carefully supervised. They are required to consult with their instructors before and after every service they perform.

With regard to my one negative experience I advise the following, no matter where you're going for a service unless you've got a regular stylist:

1. If you have a specific cut/style in mind, bring in photos/magazine clips if possible. In my opinion pics or clips of cuts that aren’t obviously professionally-styled would be best, unless you have a stylist to do your hair every day. I think requesting a hair cut to match someone’s red carpet look might end up as a letdown if you don’t know how to style it yourself.

2. Even if you feel silly, be VERY specific in describing what you want done.

3. Be sure to make your stylist aware of your hair’s “makeup.” Whether it’s fine, coarse, thick, naturally curly, processed, etc.

4. Do NOT make generalizations, like “give me layers.” There are many different types of layers – my last cut involved very WRONG ones for my hair type. I feel I must say that I didn’t make that generalization, I did specify what I wanted but I was ignored. Grrr.

Over the last 15 years or so, the length of my hair has ranged from almost to my waist to 1/2 inch off of my scalp. The latter was WAY too short, but long hair is too hard to straighten and when I have it I severely neglect trims and end up with loads of split ends. Long explanation short: if I had naturally straight hair I'd keep it long.

Like most people, I was genetically given the hair I don't want. So my curly-made-straight hair will likely be kept on the shorter side for a while and continue to be subject to the Russian roulette assignment of Aveda students.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

New (old) favorites

As I believe I've reported before, until recently I've had no cd player (or ipod connectivity, etc) in my car since the fall of 2003. Therefore most of my cds have been collecting dust up until I installed my new stereo a few weeks ago. And yes, I was still listening to music during that time, just not as much and only from an ipod.

I hadn't listened to Lori Amey's Nothing to Say album in so long that I'd forgotten how much I adore it. Flawless guitar skills and the voice of an angel - that is Lori Amey.

Lori is a dear friend of one of my former co-workers from Michigan State University. She plays the guitar on all of the tracks on Nothing to Say and sings the songs solo - all of which she wrote herself.

I had the pleasure of meeting Lori before I left Michigan for good and she is a delightfully modest and gracious artist. I do hope she continues to put music out there.

Her site hasn't been updated in a few years (or so it appears), but you can still find out a little bit about her on loriamey.com. Her 2005 album This Little Illusion is available on iTunes.

My favorite tracks on Nothing to Say are "Heal" and "Nothing to Say."

Another old and new favorite is Barrett Smith's Solo Guitar. BEAUTIFUL guitar - no lyrics - just guitar and nothing else. I LOVE it. Barrett is a friend of an ex-boyfriend of mine. At least I got Barrett's cd out of that relationship! :)

Check out Barrett's site here where you can listen to samples if you're so inclined.

If you check either of them out let me know what you think!

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Summer TV

As previously posted, I am ecstatic about the return of True Blood – the second season premiered Sunday June 14th. Ratings were through the roof - up something like over 150% from last year's premiere and more than 50% higher than the 1st season finale. Go Stephen Moyer, GO!

But I’m slightly curious about other shows and what you might think about them. Let me know if you have an opinion about any of those listed below.

Raising the Bar: 2nd Season. Created by Steven Bochco. Starring Mark-Paul Gosselaar (Saved by the Bell); Gloria Reuben (ER); J. August Richards (Angel). I think I watched maybe ½ of one or two of the 1st season episodes. At the time, I couldn’t get myself to commit to yet another show, as I didn’t have a DVR until around February 2009. This reason will likely be repeated several times below.

Saving Grace: 3rd Season. Created by Nancy Miller. Starring Oscar-winner Holly Hunter (The Piano); Leon Rippy (Deadwood); Laura San Giacomo (Pretty Woman). Viewed parts of several episodes, but never picked it up completely. Again, I couldn’t commit to yet another show, as I didn’t have a DVR until around February 2009.

Hawthorne: Written by John Masius. Starring Jada Pinkett Smith (actress of many roles and Will Smith’s lovely wife). Did not watch or record the premiere last night. Anyone watch it? If so, did you love it or hate it?

Wedding Day: Reality. Description on IMDB follows: Each week, this uplifting and emotional series selects a different deserving bride from across the country and, with the help of her family and friends, makes her wedding dreams come true. WEDDING DAY comes to TNT from Mark Burnett Productions and DreamWorks Television, with executive producers Mark Burnett, Darryl Frank, Justin Falvey and Janelle Fiorito. Did not watch or record the premiere last night, although I caught a few minutes while trying to transition from reading my book to watching TV (turning mute off) and I found myself yelling, “Turn it off, turn it off unless you want to be reduced to a sobbing mess of a woman!” Anyone watch it? If so, did you love it or hate it?

If I'm missing out on something great, please let me know!

And P.S., as you surely noticed, I am a TNT JUNKIE.

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Zoe's stylishly pliable coif

I have several older photos of Zoe that I labeled "The Heatmeiser," as her hair easily resembles the described "Mr. Sun" from The Year without a Santa Claus. I actually have a good friend who is nicknamed Heat, and he looks far more like the Heatmiser than Zoe, but her do comes in at a close second.

The photos below were snapped last weekend. Despite her bad biting rep, Zoe really can be quite tolerant. (Or maybe not - considering I was the stylist and I'm the only one Zoe would never nip at, with the exception of Jen!)



We haven't ever figured out the why behind it, but Jen can force Zoe to act out the Macarena without experiencing so much as a scratch in response. The only other person I know of whom she adores nearly as much is my dear friend Caroline's husband, David. In fact, Caroline and David are the only individuals I even consider leaving Zoe with if I have to be away for a night or more. Thanks Caro and David - we love you!

Who says messy hair isn't hot?!

Monday, June 15, 2009

Candy

I recently purchased Candy on DVD from Amazon, along with my eagerly anticipated copy of the How to Be soundtrack. Candy, starring Health Ledger and Abbie Cornish is based on the novel of the same name by Luke Davies - which I read. The book is quite a bit more graphic, but the film is pretty true to the plot.

The description on the back of the DVD is as follows:

Oscar nominee Health Ledger stars as Dan, a charming but reckless young poet who has fallen in love with Candy (Abbie Cornish), a beautiful young art student from a comfortable middle-class family who is attracted to the bohemian lifestyle that Dan has long since embraced. In order to get closer to Dan, Candy, whose previous drug use has been casually experimental, starts shooting up. Their passionate relationship then alternates between bursts of ecstatic oblivion and bouts of despair and self-destruction. Hooked as much on heroin as one another, their story becomes a love triangle – a boy, a girl, and a drug.

I watched the movie, in its entirety for the first time on youtube.com and became an immediate fan (hence the DVD purchase).

My favorite scene is probably the first one - the opening scene - when Candy and Dan are together in the "tilt-a-whirl-like-ride" and so obviously enamored with each other. Ahhh, young love!

There are comedic moments in the first half-hour or so, but for the most part the movie is quite depressing, albeit easy to get drawn into. Abbie Cornish does an amazing job – her portrayal of Candy is so convincing with all of the heartache, despair and false hope. Towards the end her character becomes almost completely mad, and I believe every word out of her mouth. I just love her in this film.

Candy is beautifully acted, deeply and emotionally charged and painfully heartbreaking. Heath Ledger and Abbie Cornish most certainly make an attractive couple on-screen, but their destructive life together makes it hard for the viewer to want their love to survive.

I'm sure the tragedy of the film - for me - seems all the more painful in light of Ledger's untimely death. I can't help but be sad that Dan, the Joker, Gabriel, Jimmy, Patrick, Ennis, Skip and Casanova all died with Ledger in January of 2008.

Of all his roles, Dan was a favorite. Heath was gifted at portraying a tortured soul.

Candy was released by TH!NKFilm on DVD in 2007.

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Quote of the day

"You grow up the day you have your first real laugh at yourself."

-Ethel Barrymore

I can't help but make an extra comment on this quote. It is so true! I learned to laugh at myself long ago (I'm sure others have laughed at me, too, for not-so-flattering reasons), and by doing so I've been able to almost accept myself as I am. It's been a long process, but I am a happy girl. I make my friends laugh, as they do the same for me.

There is nothing in the world I want more than to have friends who make me laugh!

Friday, June 12, 2009

True Blood Returns Sunday

I CANNOT WAIT!

Season 1 kept me on the edge of my seat (thanks to Robert and Kerry as I don't personally have HBO) and I've anxiously awaited Season 2.

This show is nothing like Twilight, which is a good thing, but I must admit my shock at Anna Paquin winning a Golden Globe for her role as Sookie Stackhouse because she is likely my least favorite character.

I truly never bought her performance and felt that almost every other character out-acted her. Perhaps that's the wrong way to describe it because I actually felt that she over-acted and that's why I didn't like her. Her Louisiana accent was atrocious and most of her intense scenes played out like extreme bad acting. But I guess that's just me. I still love the show.

Maybe I should add here that I adore Stephen Moyer. I'd never seen him before The Starter Wife, but it didn't take long to love him! In a recent interview posted on Variety.com he said, "I get the Robert Pattinson leave-offs, the ones who get to a certain point and think he's a boy. There's the Pattinson gang and the Moyer gang."

Well Bill, this viewer thinks your a pretty hot vamp-MAN.

I'm hoping Lafayette isn't really dead and that Sam isn't really such a bastard - or should I say dog? Less than 72 hours to answers! I'm sure the premiere will be Vamp-tastic!

Thursday, June 11, 2009

Zoe is on the pill again

The pill I'm referring to is Trimeprazine with Prednisolone. It seems Zoe is just as much a victim of allergies as I am.

While she hasn't had an episode for more than a year, she woke me up very early Wednesday morning by pawing at my face while she struggled for breath. I'm sure I would've been far more panicked had she not had the same reaction in previous years.

I suppose I should've suspected an oncoming problem as the symptoms of atopy/inhalant allergies in dogs include the following: excessive chewing, licking and scratching at the face, paws, abdomen, armpits and genital area. Over the last week or so I've constantly admonished Zoe for perpetual licking and biting - get a clue mom, right? I feel terrible.

My understanding employers allowed me to spend almost the entire day at home with Zoe, and I will be able to do the same today as Thursday is my usual telecommute day. Zoe is far more comfortable - especially when ill - if I am home with her.

Still, I must admit that I often wonder if she wishes for illness that requires meds in pill form because that means baby food for Zoe. Her mouth is too small for me to get a good angle at forcing a pill down her throat (I can do it to Bailey although I prefer not to), so the pills must be pulverized with a mortar and pestle and then mixed into baby food for Zoe's consumption.

Her "happy Zoe dance" prior to receiving baby food is priceless. If I had a capable video camera I would certainly record it, but instead I'll give it a brief description. Imagine a tiny terrier, dancing on only her back feet for 2 to 4 minutes straight with tiny hops interspersed between the steps. The front paws never touch the floor.

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Music finds

I've often stumbled across music I adore via my favorite television shows. I was introduced to a true favorite, Greg Laswell, via Smallville; Alexi Murdoch (pictured right) via Dawson’s Creek; Kim Richey via Angel ("A place called home" is an all-time favorite); Emerson Hart via (as embarrassing as it is) The Hills; Ryan Adams via Alias; Katie Gray via Bones, and many more.

I sincerely appreciate the web sites out there that list the music for individual episodes of shows. I would assume the artists do, too. *wink*

Recent superb find was also via Bones. "Broken Bridge" by Daughter Darling – love it. Wow. I encourage everyone to look it up.

I also love Aqualung, featured in both Wicker Park and A Lot Like Love; Sia’s "Breathe Me" from the Six Feet Under series finale (that is a lifetime true favorite, without question – both the song and the episode); and Powderfinger has been a favorite of mine since my summer in Australia. Tracks from Powderfinger can be found in Two Hands, an awesome flick starring the late Heath Ledger. The band and the film are highly recommended.

If you’ve come across any absolute favorites via television or movies I’d love to hear about it!

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

What makes a Zoe? (Please vote)

I found Zoe online at a rescue shelter in Greensboro. The person who gave her up proclaimed the following two things:

1. She was the offspring of a Jack Russell Terrier and a Poodle
2. According to medical records, she was born in April of 2004

Therefore, Zoe is believed to be a 5-year-old Jack-a-poo.

I just don't quite trust the word of a dog abandoner, so the following is the skinny on Zoe.

She weighs 7.3 pounds, she has serious JRT spring and she's as smart as a whip - the best guard dog I could ever hope to have - even though I often begrudge her for her keen alertness.

By alertness, we're talking snap-judgment bark-o-rama at the slightest of door slams. While I'm ever so positive that Zoe will someday save me from a horrible fate brought on by robbery, I'd still rather she kept her yapping mouth shut most of the time.

The first two photos below are of Zoe. The 3rd photo is one I found online of a Yorkie poo (Yorkshire Terrier crossed with a Poodle), and the last photo is of a Jack-a-poo (Jack Russell Terrier crossed with a Poodle).

So what's your vote as to Zoe's origin? Yorkie poo; Jack a poo; or random scrappy yapping terrier? Please let us know by commenting. Thanks!






Monday, June 8, 2009

Titanic finally at rest

Apparently the last survivor of Titanic's maiden voyage died on May 31st. Millvina Dean died at age 97 at a nursing home near Southampton, England. History reports that she was about 2 months old when Titanic sank. Her brother and mother made it on to a lifeboat with her, but her father did not survive the catastrophe.

Dean had no memory of the incident at all, and she was only made aware of it around her 8th birthday. After she was apprised of the disaster, she said she never wanted to hear about it again - ever.

Should I have experienced the same, I truly believe I would agree.

I saw Titanic with one of my dearest friends just before Christmas in 1997. By the end of the movie I was uncontrollably blubbering - completely incomprehensible in my sobbing - to the point where I think I scared my friend, Mark.

He looked at me and said, "Tracey, it's just a movie, it's okay!"

I turned on him, incredulous, and screamed, "It's NOT just a movie! I don't care about that Jack and Rose scenario! Don't you know that all really happened?! So many people died unnecessarily! How could they do that to each other - to children?!"

We went to dinner at Squid's in Chapel Hill afterwards and I remember our waitress feeling quite uncomfortable with my inability to stop weeping. It was truly not something I could control, and in fact, every time I watch the movie (as I did Sunday night because it was on TV) I experience the same emotions.

The following lines break me every time:

Fifteen hundred people went into the sea when Titanic sank from under us. There were twenty boats floating nearby and only one came back. One. Six were saved from the water, myself included. Six... out of fifteen hundred. Afterward, the seven hundred people in the boats had nothing to do but wait. Wait to die, wait to live, wait for an absolution that would never come.

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Overdue get together

Caroline and I met up with Kerry at the Burleigh house for dinner on Saturday night for a long overdue night together. Of course, per usual, I only have photos of the kiddies - they are so much fun to photograph.

Sydney and Felton were both a bit apprehensive to the arrival of a "familiar stranger" - meaning they both immediately assumed "babysitter" when they saw me coming, but Felton quickly warmed up (he can't resist my super-high pushes on the swing). Sydney remained cautious although I was happy she let me give her a kiss goodnight.

Felton did not want to smile for the camera, but I blackmailed him for the photo below. I told him I'd never push him on the swing again if he didn't say cheese and smile for me. That threat was met with a huge grin right away!





Caro, Kerry and I had a great time catching up. I love that we've all been friends for more than 25 years - I wouldn't want to imagine life without them. Oh, and I'm seriously looking forward to baby Mason #1 this summer! (Caro is due with a baby girl on July 31st).

On a random side note, I just read an e-mail from Kerry announcing that her sister had to put down her beloved Bernese Mountain dog, Deacon, last week. Adios sweet Deacon - you will be missed!

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Fuzzpa in the house

My dad, better known as Fuzzpa to my niece Abby, arrived last night for a three day stay. He's attending some kind of dentistry seminar at UNC. I think this is the third year that he's stayed with me for this reason, and I hate to admit that there is a certain amount of dread that accompanies thoughts of spending more than 24 hours with him.

You see, we are VERY similar - I am very much my father's daughter - and I think our similar personalities often butt heads (HARD) and that creates a dangerous dynamic. Our arguments are never anything less than violently intense.

It hasn't been so bad in the last two years or so, but I always have that dread in the back of my mind.

Don't get me wrong, I LOVE my dad SO much, likely more than anybody else in my life because I know he loves me more than anyone else ever could.

He's always been my biggest fan, greatest source of support and the one person (other than Kerry) whom I have always been able to count on no matter what. For those reasons, I accept the occasional tiff, no matter how bad, and always eventually move on because he is my dad and he is fabulous.

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

My faucet-like eyes return with a vengeance

I'm sure my life would be far easier if I went to a doctor to be thoroughly tested for allergens, but who has time for that, right? Really I should, but I know I won't, and I curse myself every day as I wipe at the corners of my eyes, wearing the skin down to extreme discomfort - practically rendering it unbearable to the touch. Most days I'm left with red-rimmed orbs that make me look stoned, 10 years my senior or both.

As I've said before, I'm sure a big part of my problem revolves around a pet allergy, but there is no real resolution for that because I will never be without a dog. That is certain.

Claritin Redi-tabs help a bit, but there are still days that are RIDICULOUS, on which I could easily convince an outsider that I'd been boo-hooing ALL day as my eyes water to the point where they runneth over - FOR HOURS.

DAMN these allergies that only came about sometime around my 21st year. GRRR. Curses! I'm tired of them ruining my use of mascara!

Those commercials where the woman rips up her yard and coats EVERYTHING in her house in plastic are starting to look quite appealing to me.

Yes, as one could easily guess, this post is merely and angry rant as I'm tired of looking like a glassy-eyed zombie.

Monday, June 1, 2009

You're not a nobody. You're a somebody.

I broke down and ordered How to Be from TWC on demand Friday night and I’m so glad I did.

In response to the one negative reviewer on IMDB, I would have to say that I am indeed a fan of the Twilight books, but I wasn’t a fan of Twilight the movie until I watched the version with the commentary by Catherine Hardwicke, Kristen Stewart and Rob Pattinson. I guess what I mean is that I’m not in awe of the on-screen Edward Cullen so much as tickled by how funny Pattinson can be when he’s off camera and amongst friends.

Yes, there are Pattinson fans out there that will watch How to Be just to see him, but it’s not fair to lump us all in a “Twilight-fan-obsessed-frenzy” and say that’s the only reason someone would enjoy How to Be.

I can easily see why viewers of How to Be will laugh out loud. It’s a quirky, cute, endearing and yes, funny film. Art is a painfully depressed misfit with whom many individuals can surely identify.

Young adults between the ages of 19 and 24 are often in the most volatile stages of their lives - especially when it comes to career choices. I should know, I feel like I still haven't made a real career choice even though I've got two degrees and I'm way past 24-years-old.

I included a photo of the poster above because my job/life also makes me feel like throwing my head down a hole quite often.

Art's self pep-talk before the ending scene is PRICELESS, especially his little fist-bump to the mirror. There are a LOT of kids out there who could benefit from seeing something like that. You're not a nobody. You're a somebody.
A little self-esteem goes a long way!

There are far more people out there like Art than Edward (from Twilight) and I'm fairly certain I'd prefer the former to the latter.

Two of my other favorite indie films are Irréversible and Loggerheads. Indies are great - I often enjoy them far more than any studio blockbuster. How to Be is a new indie favorite for me.